Cody & Ashley’s Country Engagement Portraits in Needville, TX

Growing up in a small town, Cody & Ashley always knew each other, however they didn’t date until they moved away to college and returned home and ended up at a mutual friends party.

The proposal:

On Christmas morning 2018, Cody gave Ashley a note, which ended up being the first of a few notes that sent her on a scavenger hunt around the house. The last note had Ashley looking in the Christmas tree for a certain colored ornament. When she couldn’t find it, she turned around and Cody was down on his knee with the ring, which he had all along!

The best part of the entire engagement story (which is pretty epic!) is that Cody proposed to Ashley in the same house and same date that her step-dad proposed to her mother 24-years ago.

The engagement portraits:

Saturday morning I awoke to a dark sky and some raindrops. I was a bit nervous that the scheduled engagement portrait session would have to be rescheduled. As the day went on the sun slowly came out and dried up the rain. Andy, Tristan and I met Cody & Ashley at a private residence in Needville, owned by a friend of Ashley’s mother. Mojo, the horse greeted us at the gate (and later came down to see what we were up to). The sun was shining, the cows were grazing nearby a copses of oak trees. We started taking pictures under the oak trees and quickly had to fend off the hoard of caterpillars. It almost felt as if they were falling from the trees there were so many.

I was so excited how close the cows let us get and how Mojo, the horse, came right up to us insisting we pet him.

Check out some of the photos from the engagement portrait session below.

Ryan & David’s Houston Memorial Park Arboretum Engagement Portraits

It’s amazing to think that a man from Utah and a man from Mexico can travel hundreds of miles from home and end up finding love. I enjoyed getting to know Ryan & David as we were taking photos. I learned that Ryan came to Houston to work in the medical district while a job opportunity in Victoria brought David to Texas. Growing up in a large city in Mexico, David knew the city life was what he really craved, so he moved to Houston. The two met and immediately hit it off. It wasn’t long before Ryan knew he had found the love of his life and had to make it official.

The Proposal:

Ryan wanted to propose to David like they do in movies. He took David to  the Phantom of the Opera play. Before the play began, Ryan had planned on dropping an engagement ring in David’s drink. Out of the blue, David dropped some gummy-bears into his drink before Ryan could hatch his plan, which threw Ryan off. He went ahead with the plan and dropped the ring into David’s glass. The happy couple will be getting married in May this year.

I showed up to the Arboretum early to scout out a few trails and walked the “inner trail” which was a lot longer than I thought. Eventually, I had to pull up a map of the park on my phone to make sure I didn’t get lost. While I waited for the couple to arrive, I noticed a possum and a cat just hanging out outside the nature center at the park. David and Ryan showed up a little bit later with their adorable puppies. The cloud cover finally cleared and the temperature was chilly, but not uncomfortable. We had a blast chatting and exploring the park during Ryan and David’s engagement portrait session.

Traditions Vs. Non-Traditions — Bad Luck to see the bride before the wedding

As a wedding photographer in the business for several years now I have seen a lot of tradition at weddings and a lot of non-traditional weddings. First off, every wedding is different. It’s like a snowflake or a fingerprint. Each wedding is entirely unique to its couple.

This is the first part in a series of traditions vs non-traditions

  1. It’s bad luck for the groom to see his bride before a wedding.

I didn’t actually know this until I was researching it for this blog. Apparently, this tradition goes back to when it was common for arranged marriages. The idea was that the groom didn’t see his bride until it was too late to back out… I suppose that’s why it was bad luck (for the bride at least) if he saw her before the wedding and decided he didn’t want to be tethered to her for life. Yikes!

Now, it’s just something people do. Maybe they’re superstitious or maybe they’re just a traditionalist. Either way, one of the most exciting parts of a wedding (as a wedding photographer) is capturing the moment when the happy couple sees each other in their finery for the first time.

The non-traditional aspect is the first look, which has sort of become somewhat traditional. I love first looks because of the special intimate nature of it. Generally it happens with just the couple in a small, quiet place before their wedding. It gives the couple a chance to have an intimate moment just between themselves (and their wedding photographer). It can be exciting and funny. Sometimes there’s tears and sometimes the jokes keep me laughing for weeks later.

What are your thoughts?

If you knew this before you were married, would you have changed anything? I know if I knew the reason behind the “bad luck” I probably would have scheduled a first-look myself.

Matt & Cassandra’s Lakeside Wedding at Seven Coves

Wedding Photography from a Whimsical Lake Conroe Wedding.

At 8am on Saturday Andy and I ditched the kiddo with his Grammy and started our journey to the other side of town to photograph an afternoon wedding filled with joy, fun and the largest assortment of cupcakes I have ever seen at a wedding.

The sun was shining (miraculously) and the idea was for the couple to marry on the deck facing Lake Conroe, however, the wind was whipping around and the waves were splashing onto the deck with fervor. So, Matt & Cassandra made an executive decision to hold their wedding inside the Seven Coves clubhouse. The couple was already toying with the idea because the weather had been predicted to rain for their ceremony.

Matt & Cassandra’s ceremony was beautiful and intimate. It was held in a part of the building that was surrounded by floor-to-ceiling windows. You couldn’t hear the birds and waves, but you could see them, and there was a very friendly resident squirrel who desperately wanted to partake in the festivity food. The venue was whimsically decorated in blue and yellow hanging lanterns, vases filled with babies breath and coordinating pinwheels.

The most important people in both Matt & Cassandra’s lives were in attendance. Matt and his two groomsmen lined up against the windows. Because of spacing issues, Matt was told to turn and face away while Cassandra and her bridesmaids and Jr. Bridesmaid made their way to the end of the isle. When Matt was finally able to turn to see his bride, you could see the sun shining from his eyes.

For all of the crazy weather we have had here in the past few days, I was pleased that the sun was shining and the temperature was in the mid 70’s. A perfect day for a white wedding!

**Side Note:  As a wedding photographer, pinwheel exits are my new favorite exit. The photos turned out so cute and colorful!


Vendors

Venue: Seven Coves
Cake: Tier One Cakes
Flowers: The Heartfield Florist

The ultimate guide to looking amazing in your wedding photos

After several years of working in the wedding photography business, and portrait business, I have learned a few tips and tricks to looking amazing in your wedding photos.

Have you ever noticed how some instagram stars like to share portraits of them looking slim and fit, then a second later sharing a photo of them looking like they have an enchilada baby growing in their bellies? That’s because they know their body and what angles they look best in. They know the tips and tricks of the trade. Below I am going to share some of those tips with you.

The basic way to look good in your images is to feel confident and to consciously think about your carriage (how you hold yourself). When you feel confident in your photos, you will look confident. As for your posture, pretend there is a string attached to the top of your head and someone above is pulling it up. Below, I will bread down some common body concerns for men and women.

 

Arms:

As a wedding photographer, I work with a lot of clients who find themselves holding things (ie flowers) in their hands. People tend to relax their arms and push them into their bodies. This flattens your arms and makes them look bigger than they really are. The easiest way to prevent this is to be conscious of your elbows. Make sure your elbows are NOT touching anything.

Curves (boobs & butt):

This is fairly simple. If you want to accentuate your curves, you need to think about your spine as the “S” that it is. Push your chest out while pushing your butt out at the same time. You should really feel this in your lower back. You can angle your body slightly to the side of the camera to make sure the camera sees your curves. Never face the camera dead on if you want to accentuate your assets. Ladies, it’s also important to pop a knee in your photos. This will help to offset your angles and really accentuate your curves.

Tummy:

Pretty much everyone is concerned about how their stomach looks in pictures. I know I defiantly am. For women, if you are taking photos with your fiancé, turn perpendicular to your partner (ooh I just used middle school math!) then press your bellybutton into your partner’s hip bone. If you are taking pictures by yourself, you can use the same “S” shaped spine idea as above in accentuating your curves to make your tummy disappear. In general, we have bad posture. When you straighten your spine your entire carriage lifts and stretches (stretching your stomach as well).

Broad Shoulders:

To broaden your shoulders, first square yourself with your wedding photographer. You are facing each other head on. Next, straighten your posture and (like in the arm section above) make sure your elbows are not touching anything. This pose also helps to slim your tummy situation.

 

Remember, be vigilant in maintaining your posture during your wedding portraits, or for any portrait really, and be confident! You look amazing, so feel it and show it.

 

Cross Key Acres

Cross Key Acres – vendor appreciation.

This quaint 15-acre venue is tucked into the back of Richmond, TX. Just past Greatwood and before you reach the train track headed toward Damon. Cross Key Acres is a hidden treasure perfect for any rustic wedding.

After taking a short gravel path to the venue, you’re greeted by a rustic, 2-story farm house with a wide front porch that stretches around the side to the back of the house. Next door to the house is a large barn/hanger where the receptions are held. I absolutely love the tall white ceiling and the chandeliers as well as the open concept of this space.

Weddings can be held at several locations on the property. one such location is just off the back porch into the grassy lawn. Candace does an amazing job of setting up the space ascetically for their clients. She is a wedding photographer herself and has an eye for detail.

 

Call or email Candace to schedule your private tour today.

713-516-2698

crosskeyacres@gmail.com

Happy Valentines Day!

It’s Valentines Day, and while many will be celebrating with a shiny new engagement ring, or a romantic dinner, I will probably be watching NCIS with Andy and Tristan and neurosing over my computer.

On Sunday, my computer had some sort of major malfunction. I was in the process of working on my regular Tuesday blog when my computer froze. I shut it down and it hasn’t turned back on since (not for a lack of trying). Andy asked me what I wanted for Valentines Day and I told him I wanted him to take my computer into the Apple store. How romantic right? I would be unable to do it and frankly, the entire thing has pushed me to the edge of turning into a green 10-foot monster. “Hulk mad. Hulk want smash!”

I find myself sitting on my bed Wednesday evening typing this up on my iPad while Big Love plays in the background, and my cat (Rascal) beggs for attention and is a complete lovable pest. Luckily, I was able to Bluetooth my keyboard to it so at least I have something going for me. 

Andy says I will probably loose everything that was on the computer, but I’m hoping for a Valentines Day miricle. Lucky, most everything that is important to me is on external hard drives.

I digress

Have a happy Valentine’s Day, however you may spend it, I hope you have a great evening. If you were expecting an engagement ring, I hope you get it, if you were expecting your fiancé to take you to your favorite haunt, I hope they do. And if you are an old married couple (who hates crowds) I hope takeout is ordered and a good movie is qued up.

Top 10 Wedding Dresses

Ah the wedding dress. A quintessential part of a wedding. I have seen so many amazing and unique wedding dresses in my day. Some from places like Davids Bridal and others hand made by the brides family. Here are the top 10 wedding photography images from my all time favorite wedding dresses (to date)

 

Enjoy!

Our Favorite Engagement Portrait Locations

Engagement season is upon us. I love getting to travel around Houston finding new and exciting locations for portraits.

We have traveled throughout the Greater Houston area to seek out some great locations to take engagement portraits.

After several years of photographing engagements and portraits in the area, we have come up with a list of our favorite:

 

For an edgie/grunge/hip feel: The Graffiti park off of 59 and Leeland, on the East side of Downtown. The location is always hopping with people taking video and photos. I have taken a few couples here for their engagement portraits. Another location is in Richmond, just over the Brazos river there is a location that butts up against the train tracks that I love shooting at. This location is great because it has so much. You can take pictures by the tracks, the buildings in the area are all different colors and textures.

For a green/garden feel: Herman Park has a lot to offer. There are a few locations in the area that are gorgeous (especially when the azaleas are blooming). Some of the parks in the area require a permit to take professional photos at, however.

If you are looking for a more forest like look: by me is Jones Creek Ranch Park, but also one of my favorite locations to take engagement portraits is at Memorial Park (which is where my parents were married).

For a country/rustic feel: The Fullbrook neighborhood entrance (in Fulshear) has some rustic structures, however I am always looking for rustic locations. If anyone know’s of a barn with wooden fence and maybe some animals, I’m always game.

 

Types of Wedding Photographers

Hey Y’all! Let’s talk about types of wedding photographers.

No, I’m not talking about journalistic vs posed. I’m talking about the monetary types. There are 3 different types of wedding photography payment plans out there. Make sure to do your research and ask as many questions as you can from your potential wedding photographer before booking them.

  1. There is the type of wedding photographer who charges everything up front. They tend to look like the more expensive photographer, because they do not charge anything on the back end. Sort of like flying Spirit Airlines vs Southwest. These are the Southwest airlines of photographers. They offer prints and digital copies, and usually their package information is spelled out very clearly. I am a believer & practice this method.
  2. There is the Spirit Airlines version of wedding photographer. This photographer looks cheaper from far away, but as you start adding amenities the price starts adding up. You may be charged for the photographer to be there and a small number of digital images from your wedding, then you can add digital images and print images for a price. This is a perfect photographer for someone who just wants a few cherished moments from their wedding and are on a tight budget. Be careful, make sure to ask up front before signing any contracts how many images you get with their package, and exactly what comes with it.
  3. The last type of wedding photographer is a hybrid of #1 and #2. This photographer offers a standard package with most of the amenities you get from the #1 type of photographer, however they also offer reproductions and wedding albums on the back-end with an additional cost. They may tell you they will give you all of your edited images, however you may have to pay to download them or have them printed.

The most important thing is to consider what is most important to you, and make sure to ask all the right questions. Would you like to know what to ask photographers? click on the link below to go to a previous blog post about it.

What questions should you ask your potential wedding photographer?

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